What happens during the school years is very important. Many parents and community leaders brush-off unfavorable and unIslamic Muslim youth behaviour as being a short-term phenomena, a mix of hormones and bad friends. Time, it is argued, will mature their thoughts and bring them in line. This is rarely the case.
The school years form a critical part of the mental,
religious and social development of our Muslim youth. Factors such as the
school's curriculum, social pressures and make-up can solidly mould the
direction the Muslim youth will take. by far the most dangerous influence is
that of 'peer pressure', whereby Muslims are pressured (mentally and
physically) to conform to some social 'norm' or group behaviour. This can set
an irreparable deviated path for the rest of their lives.
Pressures from the Education system In a country which boasts of heralding individual and
religious rights, Muslims are still on the lower rung of the ladder. Even the
school administration will exert pressures on Muslims to study and participate
in Islamically abhorred activities.
Compulsory participation in sports events brings many
brothers and sisters into a state of conflict, who if refuse to participate,
will be publicly rebuked and humiliated. Sisters have been known to be harassed
to participate in swimming carnivals, gymnastics and dancing, many of which can
involve male participation. Not attending formals, camps and discos are
actually punished, through increased study load, and also mentally through
public disgrace (letting the school know who isn't joining in).
Other reported cases of teacher discrimination in Australia
includes teachers snatching the hijab off sisters, neglecting cases of abuse
against Muslims (Muslims are supposed to have been used to being singled-out by
now), and police investigations into the activities of Muslims purely on the
basis of their religion. Peer Pressure Fellow students can have a devastating effect on the morale
and piety of a Muslim. These pressures should never be underestimated, which
can intimidate a Muslim into taking drugs, smoking, 'going out' to nightclubs,
and having illegal relationships.
Sisters feel compelled to waste money on extravagant items,
'name-tags', such as Fiorelli and Benetton, for the sole purpose of fitting-in.
The preservation of her virginity is not a virtue, but rather a disgrace, a
symbol of her 'frigidity'. It sounds crazy, but whether we ignore this or not,
it is there and in a big way.
Brothers must act and smell and look like the Kuffaar to
avoid persecution. Anything which will take them away from their Islamic bonds.
It's the right thing to abuse your parents, obeying them is downright lack of
personality. Who are we The sad thing is that we have the solution for all this, but
we ignore it. Muslims don't have to feel that they're a group without identity
or meaning. Nor should we allow anyone to prevent us from fulfilling our duties
to Allah.
Legally, we have many options to take in practicing Islam at
school. We have a right to pray during the specified times. Many schools now
haFriday Prayers in a designated room. it took was the joint effort of
committed students, who themselves conduct the Khutbah. We also have the right
to celebrate our festivals, and wear our prescribed clothing without
harassment. Other religious groups are permitted by the Schools to refrain from
certain school activities. The Amish do not watch television class, the Sikhs
wear their turbans wherever they go, the Jehovah Witness do not participate in
the flag-raising or singing the national anthem. We also have our rights to
watch what we deem permissible, and refrain from unIslamic events. Many
precedents have been set in this regard. It requires the strength of our
brothers and sisters, a joint effort, and the knowledge that Muslims will not
disobey Allah for the will of anyone.
The Prophet (s.a.w.) and the Companions had nothing but
disgust for the way of life of the disbelievers. In fact, they had so much
disgust that they purposely did everything the opposite of them. 'Umar bin
al-Khattab (r.a.a.) actually forced the non-Muslims to look differently from
the Muslims. So why are we trying to imitate them?
Muslims have been given honour through Islam and nothing
else. Not through expensive designer clothes, nor expensive sneakers, or top
ten CD's. In fact, if you examine the history of the Kuffaar, you will find
them so inconsistent in their behaviour that only an idiot would want to copy
them. Every year brings on a new fashion, a new habit, a new religion. One year
its drugs, then its alcohol, then its mineral water. Australians can only copy
Americans, which really shows how much sense of identity they have. Americans
love hip hop, so do Australians. They wear baseball caps, well may as well
follow them.
Muslims however have their own identity, history and
religion, which millions have flocked to escape the filth and stupidity of
Kufr. Why are we doing the opposite?
Our Youth have to be supported by the community. When they
are in need of assistance, we must be there. This could be financially, or
morally. When they begin on reforming themselves, and assisting in bringing
about a change, the solid support must be there By Br. Ibrahim Abu Khalid